Different people has different needs, and different needs lead to different request which leads to different opinions...
We girls know what we need, what we want in a relationship.... but what do guys need?
When a guy needs his freedom, we give him his freedom...
When a guy needs time with his fwens.. we give him time with his fwens...
When a guy needs to be a man in front of his fwen.. we let him be a man...
When a guy is busy.. we let him finish his work..
BUT
Why guys don't understand our needs? or understand the things we want.. we are not asking for more. We are just asking for a little time he has to spend with us. To call or sms when he is free. To show some care when we are down.... is it too much to ask for in the first place?
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Think abt it.. has it not happened to the guys side too?
Sometimes i have to say girls dun understand our needs too.. we give in.. spent the time.. and tries our best to give wat the girl wants.. in the end... it's jux nv enough...
i agree there are always bad eggs everywhere.. in my opinion.. i have rarely seen girls who does not ask for more..
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
A sweetnest of the sweet that does not last forever
Why go guys in the beginning of the relationship would be so sweet:
1. Call you dear, darling, baby etc
2. Even a seperation of 2 hours seem long to him
3. Would be very concern of the girl's every movement
4. Would inform her of his movements
5. Would call her one time every 2 - 3 days to just casually chat
6. Would sacrifice some of his time to accompany her
7. Would listen to her grouse, complaints and even sit down to discuss how they could improve thier relationship
8. Used to say I love U long long long time ago
9. He would want to hold your hand in the car, when outside everywhere and anywhere
But now......
1. Calls the girl hey, yo, hi, hello, oi, eh, ah
2. Dont see a point to meet, and the girl has to always ask if he is free
3. Not bothered if she is home, went out, taken dinner or anything
4. He can dissapear for the whole day without a sound... unless she calls him
5. See point above
6. Sorry.. if i'm busy. i need to play futsal, badminton, go gym, play game, meet friends
7. Don't keep complaining, wanting this and that. I have done my best and i do't what else you want. You are irritating leh.
8. I love what? Have not heard it since a long time.. haha..
9. The guy now walks in front. or the girl has to make the first move to hold his hand or him..
and i bet the list goes on and on if girls want it too... why do guys blow hot and cold. we get confused and that is the point we think, is it all worth it! - S
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To start off, practises of men to chase a girl has always been almost the same for the past 1000 years.. sweet talks, gifts and sincerity has always been the top of the chart on how to chase a girl.. sometimes all things can be done easily, some needs efforts... i dun deny the fact that a person will get lazy during a relationship and tends to slack off.. however this does not apply on everyone and not only the male gender parts.. i am sure guys too encounter this issues when the girl seems cold and does not seems to be interested in meeting..
but i do admit that both parties are very close during the 'honeymoon' period.. but who moves out of this status is debatable.. wat affects this movement can be;
1) Comfort with each other... normally when someone feels comfortable in a relationship... he/she tends to move into another phase of relationship where cooing, meeting ups and attachments are reduced.
2) Getting wat they wan.... sometimes... (usually guys) after getting or attained sexual intimacy with their partners... they usually dun do anything else and are classified as Bastards and etc.
3) Slack cuts in when the one knows the relationship is stable.. this again can be and usually points towards the male counterpart of not doing what is done before..
4) This point is in favour of males(finally)... usually a guys gives to the one he loves... but giving to a certain point and not receiving back.. tires us... we become irritatable and sulky because girls... (some girls) take it all for granted... and eventually wan more from their bfs and thus feeling that their bfs has not been doing anything at all.....
Point 4 refers to all... both sexes can be pointed at for the fault... ever stop n wonder and see the little things that ur partner has done for u? has it really completely stopped? or is it jux u who is asking for more... - M
1. Call you dear, darling, baby etc
2. Even a seperation of 2 hours seem long to him
3. Would be very concern of the girl's every movement
4. Would inform her of his movements
5. Would call her one time every 2 - 3 days to just casually chat
6. Would sacrifice some of his time to accompany her
7. Would listen to her grouse, complaints and even sit down to discuss how they could improve thier relationship
8. Used to say I love U long long long time ago
9. He would want to hold your hand in the car, when outside everywhere and anywhere
But now......
1. Calls the girl hey, yo, hi, hello, oi, eh, ah
2. Dont see a point to meet, and the girl has to always ask if he is free
3. Not bothered if she is home, went out, taken dinner or anything
4. He can dissapear for the whole day without a sound... unless she calls him
5. See point above
6. Sorry.. if i'm busy. i need to play futsal, badminton, go gym, play game, meet friends
7. Don't keep complaining, wanting this and that. I have done my best and i do't what else you want. You are irritating leh.
8. I love what? Have not heard it since a long time.. haha..
9. The guy now walks in front. or the girl has to make the first move to hold his hand or him..
and i bet the list goes on and on if girls want it too... why do guys blow hot and cold. we get confused and that is the point we think, is it all worth it! - S
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To start off, practises of men to chase a girl has always been almost the same for the past 1000 years.. sweet talks, gifts and sincerity has always been the top of the chart on how to chase a girl.. sometimes all things can be done easily, some needs efforts... i dun deny the fact that a person will get lazy during a relationship and tends to slack off.. however this does not apply on everyone and not only the male gender parts.. i am sure guys too encounter this issues when the girl seems cold and does not seems to be interested in meeting..
but i do admit that both parties are very close during the 'honeymoon' period.. but who moves out of this status is debatable.. wat affects this movement can be;
1) Comfort with each other... normally when someone feels comfortable in a relationship... he/she tends to move into another phase of relationship where cooing, meeting ups and attachments are reduced.
2) Getting wat they wan.... sometimes... (usually guys) after getting or attained sexual intimacy with their partners... they usually dun do anything else and are classified as Bastards and etc.
3) Slack cuts in when the one knows the relationship is stable.. this again can be and usually points towards the male counterpart of not doing what is done before..
4) This point is in favour of males(finally)... usually a guys gives to the one he loves... but giving to a certain point and not receiving back.. tires us... we become irritatable and sulky because girls... (some girls) take it all for granted... and eventually wan more from their bfs and thus feeling that their bfs has not been doing anything at all.....
Point 4 refers to all... both sexes can be pointed at for the fault... ever stop n wonder and see the little things that ur partner has done for u? has it really completely stopped? or is it jux u who is asking for more... - M
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